Guide to Buying Gifts For Him

Today happens to be my man's birthday and it got me thinking about buying gifts for those special guys in our lives. Unless they have told you something specific that they want it can be hard to pick out something that they will enjoy and also isn't the generic gift card. I always try to get my guy something he has mentioned he wanted but wouldn't necessarily buy himself or an accessory to something he already owns and uses frequently.
So I have put together a list of gifts that will help you find the perfect gift for your guy.

1. Playstation/Xbox accessories

I would say a majority of guys play video games. If your guy does pay attention to the games he likes and the accessories he already has for his system. Is there a new game out he wants? Has he complained about his controllers messing up? Did he mention he wished he had a wireless headset? These can clue you in on a great gift he will be happy to receive. For Christmas I bought my guy new controllers for his Playstation because I overheard him and his friends talking about the bad quality of his off brand one has. Quality controllers are not cheap and I would say most guys won't throw down $50 for a good controller (unless its necessary) and that is why they make good gifts.

DUALSHOCK 3 wireless controller in Urban Camoflauge - $54.99

Note: Make sure you get the accessory that matches his system. I almost bought controllers for Xbox, luckily the guy asked me before I paid. I would double check with the cashier before purchasing just in case.

2. Clothes & Shoes

Guys like to look good but I would say their main concern is comfort. Also, you don't see many guys shopping at the mall all day buying tons of clothes like us girls. I suggest when buying clothes for your guy, do not try to buy things that you know he would look absolutely gorgeous in but he has nothing similar in his closet already. If you buy something out of his comfort zone be prepared for it to sit in the back of his closet or hear him complain about having to wear it. My guy loves V-neck tees. They are his favorite and he says they are the most comfortable shirts for him. They also look great on him and match just about anything so I don't complain. Rue21 has a great selection of v-necks and they are always on sale so my guy receives some for almost every holiday. He also has a favorite pair of shoes. And since he wears them every day, he goes through a lot of them.

Globe Pulse Black and White - $69.00

Note: Make sure to write down his size and any specific colors he likes.

3. Adventure dates

Has your guy always wanted to skydive? Bungee jump? Jet ski? Hillbilly Handfishing? These are all fun things you can plan a date to do together (or watch him do if you're not willing to jump out of a plane with him). They can be expensive or require planning to do which he hasn't gotten around to doing or saved the money for. Whatever activity he has always wanted to do would be a great gift for him.

Note: These activities require planning ahead so Google the activity in your area and set it up in advance so you have no problems the day of the activity.


4. Cologne

Colognes and perfumes are something I believe are a personal preference. I like a lot of perfumes but most of them I would receive a headache if I wore them all day. Also colognes and perfumes mix with your body's chemicals and everyone's are different. The cologne that smells amazing in the bottle may not smell the same when mixed with his body's natural chemicals. Your best bet when buying cologne is one he already owns. If he needs a new one or doesn't own one then you can get him a fragrance set from Sephora and he can choose which one he likes best.

Sephora Fragrance Sampler For Him - $75.00

Note: He not only gets deluxe sample sizes of six colognes he will get a full size of the one he likes best.


A few things to consider when buying a gift for your man: 

If it is a new relationship try to keep the gift simple and inexpensive. Not because the relationship may not last (which could be true but we're being optimistic here) but because you don't want to set the standard so high you can't outdo it the next holiday or feel as though you have to give him lavish gifts for every holiday. I know it is hard to not get him everything he desires but trust me it will pay off in the long run. And you can find perfect gifts without breaking the bank.

Try to mix it up. He may love getting video games every holiday but it will eventually get old and predictable. He will love to be surprised by a gift that shows you really thought about his needs and wants.

Gift cards are in-personal. Unless he specifically states he wants a gift card or wants something from a store and you can not afford to pay for it and you want to help him get it, do not buy gift cards. He may appreciate the gift card but nothing beats your guy's reaction to a gift that is unexpected and personal.

Cutesy gifts are more for you than for him. I know how fun it can be to make a collage of all the pictures you have of the two of you together or some other crafty project that displays your love for each other. If he has any kind of heart he will appreciate the gift to but he would much rather have a DVD or a video game I'm sure. So go ahead and find all the Pintrest crafts you want for him but try and pair it with something he will actually be able to enjoy for fun.

It's all about him. Just remember that this gift should be for him to enjoy. It should be something that shows you care about him and you put thought into it. (Remember its the thought that counts!) He will appreciate anything that shows you sincerely thought about what he would want or need.


Hope this was helpful lovies!

Be generous! Be attentive! Be you!

xoxo,
Katherine